Using EFT to Work on Marriage and Separation - Salima (Bangalore, India)

 

Greetings all,

 

After 3 weeks of regular tapping on the issues that have been bugging me for years I am alive, rejuvenated and happy.

I had a married life for 11 years and was separated for the past 4 and half years. I live with my 2 daughters (aged 11 and 5). Managing the finance, managing the kids demanded me to be in a constant action, seldom giving me the time to heal myself or even to think of myself. I was constantly blaming myself for all that happened in my marriage and that was weighing me down completely.

A group session facilitated by Jayashree where I worked on this helped me release quite a few emotions, however i had just scratched the surface and it had left me very low. After a long depression I took the courage to work on myself and reached out to Jayashree. From then I have never looked back.

 

I had to work on my own attachment to my husband that I was holding within me. I realized that this was giving me all the grief. Even though it was difficult for me to work on this, the love and strength that Jayashree gave me helped me untwine myself from that attachment string.

 

And this lead to a real miracle! My husband had never called me after he left to Malaysia. One day during my meditation, I let go of the remaining attachment and affirmed myself for setting him free ( I instantly could relish the freeness and lightness in my heart ). After I finished my meditation that day and was teaching my child the Math's, I got a call from him. This in itself was deeply profound to me, to know that things just work un_intellectually.

With forgiving myself for my contributions in my marriage I am still in the process, but I have done a great job so far. I have begun to love myself like never before. I have moved from the 'jut me-me-me' outlook to stretching my arms out to other more needy people whom I can help. I have organized a party for the HIV infected kids this December. Myself, my kids and their friends are holding a party and teaching them dance and having fun.

Mediation has helped me a great deal with EFT.  Everytime I meditate I am in Nirvana. 

 
My sincere thanks to Jayasree. Her love made a great difference in my life. Thanks to this wondeful healing community -- I received help from Dipika when I needed somebody the most. I received a lot of help from Vinod as a buddy tapper. And Eera's postings and sharings within the community have been wonderfully motivating.

 

 

.November 2009.