EFT has helped Strengthen my relationship with my brother -- Meera (Seattle)

 

I share a very close relationship with my brother. Despite the closeness, we always fight. We have always fought and made up. Earlier the time gap between the fight and making up was literally long --- many days infact and sometimes a week. However with EFT, that gap is shortening day by day for me.
 
A month or so ago both of us fought (as always through dialogue) over an incident and even though i heard what he was saying, i was still angry; angry at his behaviour and what he was saying. Right after that I walked into my room to tap on it. And as i did, i found myself traveling just a few days back and noticed the sequence of events; I saw myself 'pricking him' here and there (through dialogue) out of playfulness; and I also saw that I carried my playfulness a bit far...the moment I realized I was the 'wrong' one in this particular fight, I immediately saw him in a different light and I also immediately accepted/forgave my feelings associated with the incident...Within minutes I walked out into the kitchen and told him I was sorry and I was wrong...the best part is, the moment I realized I was wrong and I accepted my silly mistake I knew he too would be alright soon and talk to me again...There are times when the opposite happens too, but irrespective of who apologizes or who is wrong/right or who re-initiates the dialogue, the fact that I apply eft really has strengthened my relationship with my brother!! :)

 

.October 2009.